A grounded, self-reliant, and skilled coach does not seek validation for the value they bring to their client’s success.
Don’t get me wrong—this isn’t arrogance. It stems from a space of uncluttered thoughts, a deep sense of knowingness, and an understanding of self-worth.
Knowingness is as mysterious as it is profound because it can only be felt; no amount of words can truly articulate it. You simply know it when you know it. It doesn’t whisper in your heart—it boldly screams in your gut.
Creating a space for uncluttered thoughts in today’s world is no small feat. Noise exists in every form, just one click away, while distractions sit in the palm of your hand. Opinions are no longer just shared; they’re broadcast on billboards, shouted through screens, and relentlessly in your face.
In times like these, choosing to go inward, challenge the status quo, and honour stillness with discipline is an act of courage. This isn’t about glorifying the self-work done in silence but recognising its power. It’s the kind of hard work that’s easy to dismiss yet deeply transformative.
Even reaching a place where you can see how cluttered your mind is requires consistent effort. From there, it takes even more dedication and courage to declutter it daily.
This clarity of mind is one of the most crucial qualities of a coach. A cluttered mind cannot sustainably serve others, hold space for their struggles, or empower them with tools to navigate their own journeys.
I’ve walked this path with deep discipline, enduring silent retreats lasting days, where I sat with myself in silence and introspection. I’ve invested years of my life—more than a decade—exploring answers to my deepest questions, embracing the fractures of my lineage, and uncovering the hidden gifts they hold. This process has been anything but easy, yet the rewards have been beyond words.
Being a coach requires extraordinary skill and an unshakable understanding that self-worth isn’t defined by external achievements or others’ perceptions. It resides in a knowingness—a dimension of yourself that exists simply because you are a part of this vast existence. It transcends logic and the fragile structures of the world.
A coach who has experienced this wisdom can help you uncover it within yourself.
This is my vision of a coach and this is the coach I strive to embody. Every day, I work to deepen my connection with my own knowingness, hone my skills, and declutter the thoughts and opinions that seep into the cracks I continue to heal. I am a work in progress, but I have done enough inner work to empower you to view your challenges through a transformative lens—especially with a systemic approach that encourages us to expand our hearts, embrace inclusivity through acceptance, and bring wisdom to the forefront.
If this resonates with you, I invite you to join my 1:1 coaching program, Journeying Together. Over the course of 3 months, we’ll navigate your challenges and uncover possibilities that align with your true self.
Book a free 60-minute consultation call with me, where we’ll have a heart-to-heart conversation in a safe space, exploring your journey from problems to possibilities before deciding to embark on this transformative path together.
Rooting for your massive transformation – The Incredible You
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